Body Language
Only 7% of what we
communicate is through words. A significant portion, 38%, is through our voice,
which includes the loudness, tone and pitch of communication, and speed of
speaking (Fig. 7.2). What about the remaining 55%? As the white portion of the pie-chart
indicates, as much as 55% of what we communicate is conveyed through our body
language!
Body language is the
strongest signal we emit at all times, without even realizing it. Whether it is
through eye contact or hand gestures, whether it is through our facial
expression or the distance we keep from the audience—we are communicating all
the time!
Body language is a key soft skill that reflects your personality.
Body language is a critical soft skill that everyone needs to be very conscious
of to advance their career. The world’s best business communicators have strong
body language: a commanding presence that reflects confidence, competence and
charisma.
Body language is important because it reflects a person’s
emotions. Emotions can span the entire spectrum from aggression and power, to
submission and relaxation. Each of these emotions is associated with a
combination of body languages from different parts of a person’s body.Some body language signals to
look out for, to identify ‘upset’ signals are as follows:
a. Tightened jaws
b. Deliberate frown on the
forehead
c. Prolonged disapproving
nods
d. Walking impatiently at the
back or side of the room, with head down facing the ground, and annoyed face
e. Taking off the reading
glasses
f. Eyes closed occasionally
g. Avoiding eye contact with
others or having a very cold stare
h. Unstable or losing control
over emotions (e.g., voice shaking, out-of- control gestures)
Typical body language that shows a person’s relaxed frame of mind
is as follows:
a. Head straight, chest
upright and balanced body
b. No folds or frown on the
forehead
c. Easy and quiet breathing
d. Arms hanging loosely or
confidently placed in the pocket
e. Gentle smile on the face
f. Calm eyes
But most importantly, you
have to understand that as you are studying others’ body language, others will
be constantly scrutinizing yours too. So try and find out time from your
daily schedule and work on your body language, so that you stop giving
threatening or hostile messages through your gestures and signals, when you
actually mean no harm!
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